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Progress Report

Although I haven’t been reporting here OR keeping track explicitly of my progress, I will say that yes, I’m getting quite a lot done!

The living room got cleared out for DH to live in a bed there, while that was necessary. That bed has been gone since Christmas Day. When he started sleeping in our bed again, the living room was put together a lot closer to what I really wanted it to be. Sometime in here, the table we’d loaned out was returned and we took the round table we’d been using to the swap shop along with the base of the glass-topped table DH had used to take the cover photo for the memoir.

Three days after Christmas, we took more furniture out of here: a chair/ottoman, a small bookcase, the wrought iron table with the marble top, and 2 metal end tables. We rearranged what was left.

A few weekends back, we rented a van and removed the baker’s table from the living room and moved in a low dresser we bought.

Last week, the hall and kitchen were cleaned and culled.

Today, the dining room got cleaned and culled. I had no idea how much I’d stashed around the edges of the dining room until I took it all out this morning. It was a lot!

The only piece of furniture in the dining room which wasn’t moved was the table. When I remove the pieces from the living room and hall and kitchen again, they’ll be sorted: going away now, going away at a flea market, keeps (maybe), keeps (for sure), I’ll have more room. But so far, since these are all boxes I’ve been through recently, there’s not much that’s immediately being culled. That means the stuff needs to be boxed up, labeled, and then, oh yes, I need to find a place to stash the new box.

It will be neater and tidier, but there will still be WAY too much stuff.

Nightmares? No, thankfully; I’m not having nightmares! The only bad night I’ve had recently was Saturday. I returned the edited ms. of the memoir and talked to my publisher. Anything to do with the memoir is usually followed with a bad night, lots of anxiety, etc.

I sat bolt upright around 2 a.m., with a piercing scream in my head which I managed to NOT do, but I woke DH up anyway, because I made a sort of a loud gulp and I’d probably pulled the covers off of him.

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Photo by Jian Xhin on Unsplash

I keep doing what’s needed for the book, but I will be very glad when all the steps are something I’ve done.

 

To the Walls!

It’s Christmas bread day. That means I’ll bake 12 loaves of bread today before I’m done.

But of course, that involves more than just baking a dozen loaves of bread. It involves the annual sterilization of the kitchen as well. The oven was cleaned yesterday. The stove top and the side of the kitchen where the stove is, about 1/2 the counter space, has been done. I”m taking a break before I tackle the other half. This afternoon, or right around noon I predict I’ll actually start making up bread.

But this happens first!

My long-term goal for this particular job is to have it done TWO days before Christmas (or more) and freeze the bread. Then call the neighbors and have them come and get their portion, probably while also supplying cider, coffee, cookies or ? But that’s a goal for a future time. Right now, I just have to finish the “sterilize the kitchen” portion so I can get the first batch of 4 loaves into the oven.

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Photo by Cesar Carlevarino Aragon on Unsplash

 

I am proud of myself. I found a way to use up a stash of scrapbooking paper and some silver cord for the tags. Yay! Less stuff, money spent? $0! Less to store and frugality observed — all good.

Happy holidays!

J