I know this person, well, we’ve never actually met. I got afraid for them.
Then proceeded to lecture them. Me? Who the F am I to lecture anyone? A part of me was going “DING-DING-DING! IDIOT! STOP!” but I ignored it.
Why do I do things like this? Honestly. This person is an adult, and has managed their life just fine (or not) without any input from me oh…forever. If they’d asked, yeah, maybe, but they didn’t. They didn’t ask for my opinion or input. I just had to barge in and put in my $.02 worth.
One of these days, maybe, if I’m lucky, I’ll learn to SHUT UP and WHEN.
If I could go back to being a teenager (or younger) for a while? At least then I’d have an excuse, maybe. But there’s no excuse. What I did was just rude and thoughtless.
I may actually grow up, someday, really.
[Don’t hold your breath!]