The house is a mess. Hopefully that can change at some point, soon.

I just spent 2 weeks working on the memoir in Boston. Essentially, it’s done. Yah! (It only took 10 years ‘eh, speed demon that I am.)

But I came back from Boston feeling really impatient. I need help here, one day a week. If I can get DH to help, just one day a week, we can get the house clean. Don’t know if that will happen. Inertia is a way of life around here.

After two weeks with activists, I’m not feeling so complacent about what I have here, both inside and out. Inside the house, and out.

The garden has taken off, unfortunately that also means the weeds took off too during the two weeks I was gone. I’m whacking away at that.

The CSA is in full swing and I have a lot of food to deal with. Pulled bags out of the fridge yesterday and made chicken veggies soup: water, better than bullion and misc. veggies from the freezer. NOTHING fresh. It’s yummy, we’ll finish it probably tomorrow.

Tonight I made pesto for the first time. I don’t think I’ll ever be intimidated by pesto again. Always seemed mysterious. Nope! Grind basil, salt, olive oil, pine nuts and ground Parmesan to taste. No big. In the past, we’ve frozen store-bought pesto, which is what will likely happen to this!

My garden is yielding up rhubarb still, mint, parsley, baby potatoes, chives, oregano, and tarragon, the usual early spring stuff. Being gone two weeks makes a big difference! Peas and beans are up as is corn, lettuces, etc. but nothing is mature, yet, except the garlic. The garlic scapes did get harvested when I was gone, but that’s it.

How are your gardens doing? What’s new? Yes, I was gone two weeks, but I didn’t drop off the face of the earth!

Pretty Scarey

DH’s company just sent us an informative “brochure” to us or “current resident.” Which struck us as pretty weird?

Even weirder? The content. How to convert from our current (corporate) healthcare plan to COBRA if we need to.

Between the addressing and the content I’m pretty much just spooked! I wonder if DH is going to be laid off (again) and some part of their great corporate dumb mind moved too fast? Could be.

Or, it could be as DH said, because the company is overseas (India) they’re just crossing their t’s and dotting their i’s to appear more American friendly.

Don’t know, but definitely spooked!



Had a friend over who has seen this place many a time. They said that I have “less stuff” and I know that I do, but sometimes it’s hard to believe it when the house is still a mess!

The new “magic of tidying up” book that is a current fad is by a Japanese teenager, if I remember correctly. I bought it when it was new and then loaned it out. I have a problem with taking advice from a teenager about getting rid of stuff for various reasons.

One, I’m a long time and a LOT of stuff away from being a teenager. Two, the PTSD and its complications, which are never something anyone says anything about, except, “Get help.” Well, yes, I’ve done that, for about 40+ years now. I’m doing better, but simplistic ideas don’t address whatever the hell it was that got me here to begin with, and I doubt a teenager has the ability to have that much empathy or the knowledge to deal with my issues. I sure didn’t at that age. Three, I dislike, just on general principle, one- size -fits-all  cures.

I’m a cynic. You could say that I have reasons for it.

Part of the getting stuff better here is that we are working at finding places to put things. Outside, that includes the equipment for dealing with snow, grass, hauling things, etc. We have no garage, basement or attic to speak of. All those outdoor maintenance pieces just sit outside.  We’re working on it.

We’re also working on the firewood situation (we need about 3 more cords for winter than we’ve got if we’re going to heat primarily with wood next winter). The two things together, the need to store equipment and wood, as well as the need for wood prompted what we did today. There’s about 4 fewer trees on our lot than there were this morning. They were cut into firewood sized logs approximately, large kindling and the smaller branches with leaves still attached are in two piles. When the leaves dry up, I’ll cut them into small kindling.

The next step of what we were doing is to attach a shelter for equipment that’s been in the middle of the lawn to a shed. It needs lattice around it for a couple of reasons: 1)looks and 2)to help keep the critters, etc. off it.

This will give some of the equipment someplace to be put away AND make the house look better. All good!

I really need to get back into the house and do another major purge o’ stuff, but the sunshine and garden are so seductive, I have a hard time doing almost anything inside these days! I wish we had a sleeping porch, I’d be sleeping out there too!

Saving Money on Organic Soap, Glasses, Cream Rinse and . . . .

BAR SOAP: Since I’m an eco-freak, scent sensitive AND I’m a cheapskate, a long while ago I started looking for unscented, affordable, organic soap bars. Dream on, right?

You can find  –organic, unscented bar soaps– easily enough, but cheap they’re not!

Then I had an idea, how about melt and pour soap? And that has worked, for years. I buy organic melt & pour soap base (I’ve seen it at Michael’s, but never when I actually needed any.) in 2 lb packs, which lasts about 3 years. I get them here. and as of this writing, it’s $10.95 + shipping for a 2 lb package.

I cut it up in 1 lb quantities. That cuts down into about 10 small bars of soap, like hotel soaps. DH prefers liquid soaps, so I’m the only one who uses it. But it gives me organic, unscented bar soap at a price I can afford. Yes, I have to do a little work in cutting the 2 lb slab apart (it comes with “scores” for dividing in it 1/4s) and then cutting the quarters into 5 “bars” but so? It’s .55 a bar, plus shipping. I can find soap that cheaply, yes. But not the unscented, organic stuff. One warning though: it IS melt & pour soap base. If you’re inclined to leave soap in the water, this is not a frugal option for you!

SHAMPOO: Before everyone it the US went in for scented everything I used to buy shampoo base in gallon bottles from beauty supply shops. It’s regular shampoo, just concentrated. I found out about them because I asked a lady who cut my hair where they got their shampoo? She said it came in a concentrated form and they got it wholesale, but when they ran out, they got it from the local beauty supply store. Since aromatherapy, I haven’t been able to buy my shampoo this way, but a gallon bottle used to last us about a year and a half, if I remember correctly!

GLASSES: Saving money on glasses? I learned this one from my husband. The easiest way is to reuse your frames. If you’ve got good frames, use them again!

CREAM RINSE: Well, it depends on how old you are. Really! After the change, my hair got “sticky.” It is fragile and breaks easily. Apparently I’m not alone. I found an AARP write-up that said that women of a certain age should use more cream rinse. For me, that isn’t enough (I used to have REALLY nice hair!) I hate what my hair has become, I use Giovanni, Nutrafix, Hair Reconstructor these days. I use it like I used cream rinse before.

For a long time now, I’ve used a wide-tooth comb and gently combed out my long hair, in the shower.

When younger,  I’d put about a dime-size blob of cream rinse in my hand and use it as a detangler on my damp hair. (I didn’t always need to rinse it.) I bought cream rinse about once yearly, and yes, I have had long hair for some time. I use the hair reconstructor the same way, but it takes more, darn it!

I am contemplating turning the soap base into liquid dish soap and laundry detergent. I haven’t done it yet, or tried. If I do, I’ll let you know how that goes!

It’s the Little Things

Something got me yesterday. Some bug that is. The itching was driving me crazy, so I got out of bed this morning and climbed in the tub, just to stop the itch.

Soaking in the tub, peaceably minding my own business, reading Pat Haley’s Nine Seasons Cookbook (Yankee Books, 1986), and enjoying myself. [I’m pretty sure I met Ms. Haley when I had the bookstore in Marlborough, at least I have a voice memory of her, and that usually only happens when I’ve actually met someone.]

The book is a compilation of Keene Sentinel columns and is filled with recipes and stories about the “locals” and since I know the area well, I was having a fine time.

Then the cat came in. She’s attracted to water like no other cat I’ve ever known. If I get a tub bath with enough water in it, she’ll come and drink part of my tub. Makes you feel rather like the main course at a cannibal’s carnival. Disconcerting.

Her entry brought with it air that wasn’t the warm, moist air I’d been savoring. It was cold. Okay, okay, I probably need to get out anyway . . . .

Then the little portable radio turned on. To add insult to injury it was an NPR station, doing a one-day fund drive.

Dripping, chilled, and annoyed, I get out of the tub, wrap myself in a towel then pick up the radio. I refuse to start my morning, which HAD been relaxing, with an endless plea for money! Turn off the power button.

The radio stays on.

Hit the “sleep” button. The radio stays on?

I did manage to hand the still-going radio to DH instead of throwing it, but it was a near thing. He got it to turn off, but I think he pulled a battery out. Don’t know, don’t care, he got it to SHUT UP.

Good morning!

My day continued, not quite so eventfully, but . . .

I transplanted leeks, got that job done. Got the lettuces & kales planted (first round for the lettuces, first and last for the kale). Raked up the leaves displaced by that industriousness.

Came inside, took a shower (blackflies and ticks out there right now), primered a piece of wallboard (to use as a test). Then decided I’d use up the minced rhubarb I’d pulled from the freezer stash last weekend, when we did the freezer inventory.

Okay, cake went in the oven,after a while, the house smells divine. Pull out the rack to get the pans out and one of them goes scooting off the rack, like it was an Indy driver or something and falls on the ground. Top down, of course. So, rather than being virtuous and having a rhubarb cake to put in the freezer, I put the 2nd rhubarb cake in the trash.

The other cake is still good!

Some days it feels like I’m just moving 1 step forward and 1.5 steps back, you know?

An Observation

One of the main categories of “stuff” here are long-term held things which have nowhere to be stowed when not in use!

To that end, I’ve been compiling lists of things which need “homes”: out of season bedding, garden equipment, etc.

One bugaboo is down comforters. It gets COLD here during a North East winter, and we have more than one. But during the warm months, they have nowhere to be put away. My last idea was to put them atop the wardrobe, which works fine, but looks terrible and doesn’t keep them clean. Putting them in plastic bags doesn’t work, because it’s impossible to keep them flat and tidy. Also, according to one source I found (a down comforter manufacturer) they should be stored in something breathable, not plastic anyway. Hmmmm.

So, an idea: why not make little “boxes” of fabric for them? If need be, the boxes could be enforced with buckram “boards” But if not, it would be a pretty easy thing to sew up and it would both 1) make them tidy and 2)keep them out of the dust, etc.

So this morning I designed a box for my down comforters to be stored in. I have old sheets I intend to make these with, probably at least enough for 2. I made a sketch of what I had in mind on a graphics program, printed it out, then cut it out and put in creases where I’d have seams. The first version was obviously wrong, I’d forgotten a side. Then I did a little tweaking and came up with what’s below.

This is a “sketch” and NOT cleaned up, so it isn’t perfect. The idea is to give me enough info that when I go to mark, cut, sew my fabric I’ll remember what I learned from my little paper boxes. But  this is NOT a pattern!

Do you do things like this? I’ll post updates as I make a pattern, mark, cut, sew and try and use these. We’ll see if my crazy idea works!

comforter bag, sketch

Back to the House!

I spent a week working on the yard, this week’s focus is back on the house.

I expect to again be purging books like mad and other stuff. I have to get ahold of the VFW where I set up at their yard sale last month and get another space for this month’s sale. What made it worthwhile was DH’s tools we sold, but that’s okay, what sells is what sells!

Also, I’ve been working on the food plan for us. The  CSA and garden should provide us with almost all the food we’ll need for the winter. Yesterday, DH and I culled down the freezer, last year I did this in August. I wanted to do this AHEAD of the annual food to go into the freezer glut in June – August, so I’m proud of myself. We pitched everything from 2013.  There wasn’t anything older, as that’s when our fridge died.

In the process of course I found LOTS of food I’d forgotten we had. And with DH’s help, I made a tally. We had steak kabobs last night and peas. The steak was yummy cooked on the grill and the peas cooked in the microwave, a minimum amount of heating up the kitchen! (It was VERY hot & sticky here last night.)

So, today’s plans are: water the seeds in the garden, make some sort of stew in the crock pot and pick an area and clean it to the walls! Other than that, I have to go into the next large town south and deliver a check. In the process, I’ll check on the antique booth, pull or put some stuff in the storage, etc.\

Been working on one of the frugal website ideas. When I get it done, you’ll hear about it; I promise!

It’s spring, feels like summer, and there’s more to do than I have time to get done — as usual!